Posted 8/24/2009 7:26 am
I had been drinking, and it was just after we were married. I staggered in and the wifes mother was watching tv. well, we began talking...
Posted 8/24/2009 7:44 am
i dont care if people think this is a troll or not.
i cheated on my wife with my sister once. the sex was awesome and i have no regrets
Posted 8/24/2009 1:06 pm
if your wife is not upholding her end of the marriage contract, then you have no moral obligation to uphold yours.
if she isn't giving you enough sex, you've discussed it, and she isn't sick or something, then she is breaking the agreement.
you have every right in the world to seek that elsewhere.
don't feel guilty about it and if caught put the blame squarely upon her. If she asks if you are cheating say "would you blame me if I did?" and then nothing else.
It's amazing how a wife thinks sex isn't important to a relationship, until you have sex with someone else, then suddenly it's the most important thing in the world.
Amen to that. That was the #1 reason I cheated. I already had gone through many discussions with the wife about our shitty sex life and her attitude was "I'm tired of this discussion - I don't want to talk about it any more". She was arrogant about it. In my opinion, she thought I was stuck. We have 2 kids and had a big ole mortgage, so she figured there was nowhere else for me to go, so why should she give a rat's ass?
But when she found out I was fucking someone else, then suddenly she kept asking "Why?" and "How could you?". Shit, we even went to a marriage counselor after that and even he was shaking his head when he found out about our sex life.
Under those circumstances, I was very much unwilling to push away a hot female coworker who was after me.
Always the most "needy" spouse. In all relationships there's always one who drives the relationship, the one who doesn't need the relationship as much as the other.
